Monday, October 31, 2011

Happily Ever After





A year ago today, Jeff and I were having our engagement session at Ha Ha Tonka State Park. Since then, a few things have changed. 

We went from a long distance relationship to (finally) living in the same ZIP code.

We moved in together and realized my tiny apartment wasn't big enough for the two of us.

We found a great place to rent that would be our first home together.

We adopted Kevin into our little family.

We got married!

We lived happily ever after. OK, maybe we haven’t quite hit ever after yet, but we’re definitely happy, and I'm looking forward to another great year.

Friday, October 28, 2011

Have a great weekend!

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As you probably know by now, we're trying to buy a house. Since it's totally consuming my thoughts, my usual Friday wrap-up will be house-themed today.

This weekend I'll be dreaming of paint colors and decorating ideas. Do you have any fun plans?

Here are some links I enjoy from around the web. Maybe you will, too.

Pretty paint combination and ceiling detail.

Gorgous home tour. I love every room.

Great way to recycle wine corks.

Pretty decorating ideas. I especially like the red twin beds in the turquoise room.

Towel bars as lid racks.

Sliding storage system for the garage.

Never lose a bobby pin again.

Photo via my Pinterest.

Thursday, October 27, 2011

Thrifty Thursday - Rethinking the budget

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This whole trying-to-buy-a-house thing has Jeff and I thinking more seriously about long-term financial goals. Taking cues from Dave Ramsey, the Christian financial guru, we've written out a plan for knocking out our smaller debts first, and working our way up to the larger ones.

It's less daunting once you sit down and look at your debt piece by piece. It's actually relieving to see it all there and have a plan for eliminating it.

We've decided to make the move to one bank account to help us keep better track of what we're spending and get us on the same page. No more, you buy this and I'll buy that just one transaction from our joint account.

Here's the plan. We have a few small debts that can be knocked out in a few months. We'll make the minimum payment on the larger ones and put any extra money towards the smaller debts. We'll have the lowest one paid off in no time. Then we'll take the money we would've been spending on that payment and add it to the next highest payment on the list, and so on. Soon we'll be down to just a few payments, build our credit, and have piece of mind knowing we're getting better control of our finances together.

I think it's good for us and for our marriage. I'm excited to begin implementing this plan. It's going to take a little work to get any automatic withdrawals switched over to our joint account, get new checks and new debit cards, and get used to keeping track of more than our own withdrawals. We're up for the challenge though.

The next step is getting the envelope system down.

Wednesday, October 26, 2011

The inner thoughts of a potential first-time homebuyer



Right now it's so hard to think about anything other than buying the house. We've laughed about how ahead of ourselves we are - last night we were talking about paint colors, landscaping, and how our furniture will fit there. We laugh because we still have no idea if we'll even qualify for a loan. Even more ridiculous, two weeks ago we weren't even thinking of buying a house, we saw this one, loved it, and decided to make an offer. Is that normal?

It's hard not to think about all the reasons we may not get loan approval. It's frustrating to add up all our student loan debt and know that it may hold us back this time. Our debt to income ratio isn't exactly spectacular, but we pay our bills on time and are chipping away at our debt. That's all we can do, but it's all I can think about.

I think it's really hard not to be discouraged. We just have so many questions. We want to know what our options are. We'd like to talk to a person about a loan, not just put our information into a computer. We want to set up a meeting with the bank, but they open at 8 a.m. and close at 4 p.m. How do they expect working people to ever meet with anyone at the bank? Ugh. I'll stop ranting now.

Have any of you bought a house? Do you have any advice or home-buying tips for us? Are we crazy?

Photo via online listing of our potential home.

Tuesday, October 25, 2011

It's almost like HGTV ...



Well folks, we've decided to venture further into adult life and try to buy our first home. I feel like Sandra Rinomato from Property Virgins should be waiting around the corner to tell us the right thing to do ... at least I wish she was.

It's kind of scary and nerve-wrecking, but we'd like to be able to put money into a long-term investment (and have a super-nice house), rather than continuing to pay rent (in our little rented townhouse). I never thought we'd be able to afford a mortgage, but payments on a house would only cost $150 more per month than what we're paying in rent.

Here's what's so scary. We found a house close to my work that we LOVE (seriously, you should see it - it's gorgeous). We've submitted a loan application to see if we can get pre-approved, put $500 in escrow (so nobody else can bid on it for now), and made an offer on it. The offer is contingent on if we get financed, but until we know anything, I'll just have to continue fighting my anxiety (my stomach is in knots and my heart beats fast when I think about it).

As excited, nervous and anxious as I am, I know it may not work out. But everything happens for a reason. I think I'll just be relieved to know either way and find out what we can do to help the process in the future. Keep your fingers crossed!

p.s. If we get the house, you're all invited over for a party!

Photo via Google Images.

Magnetic Nail Polish

Have you seen this? Magnetic nail polish! It makes creating a design in your nails as easy as swiping a magnet over fresh polish. Genius.



See the original post here - spotted on Cool Hunting.

Buy it here.

Monday, October 24, 2011

X-Rated Fizzy Drink

I love trying new drinks and making up concotions with different liqueurs. One favorite I keep coming back to though, is X-Rated Fusion Liqueur. It really is as girly as it sounds. Its a mix of blood orange, mango and passion fruit flavors. Here's my favorite recipe using it (I use "recipe" very loosely ... technically I just pour in what looks right to me - it'll probably taste good no matter what you do).

Pour in a little Red Bull.

Pour in a lot of booze.

Fill the glass with club soda.

And, voila! Delicious drink.